Others came over about the same time from County Antrim, Ireland, also to Philadelphia, where at least one of them made Steton Hats and one died in tragic train accident while those that remained entered the insurance business.
Some of the other forefathers came earlier - my mother's fathers family came over from England on the Neptune (1617) and the Gift (1619), settling in the Hampton Roads area of Virginia. From there, they slowly migrated west, going with Daniel Boone into Kentucky and later into Oklahoma.
Some came a little later, my mother's mother's father came over to Boston from Paisley, Scotland where fate would bring a young sailor from Oklahoma, enlisted during WWI, to his door asking for his daughter's hand in marriage.
Recently, I've been doing a bit of retrospective thinking, I don't know if it was because my last birthday made me feel old, or because I was alone on Thanksgiving Day with the family out of town, or because I've not been feeling my usually chipper self. Perhaps, it is because I have no children, that I am looking back into the past and not forward into the future?
At any rate, I've researched the family tree, looking for ... something.
169 years ago, my 4-greats-grandfather Joseph Mousley, entered this country. He married Sarah Elizabeth Hose on Christmas Day, 1826 in St. Margaret's Church, Leicester in a joint wedding with Sarah's brother Edward Hose and his bride Mary (Allen). Joseph and Sarah had ten children, three of which died before reaching the age of two and the last three were born in America.
I've sat and pondered what made him pull up stakes and move at the age of 38? Was his entire family enthusiastic about the move? What did nine year old Charles (my 3-greats-grandfather) think of the "great adventure"?
They settled at 1547 Germantown Avenue and Joseph went into business as a cordwainer (shoemaker) and shoe salesman. In a few years, Joseph owned the entire block and the courtyard alley was known as Mousley Street. Joseph retired about 1878 and was succeeded by his youngest son Joseph William.
Joseph passed away July, 1883 and his wife followed him in January, 1888. They were buried in Odd Fellows Cemetery, Diamond and 24th Street, Philadelphia. I went to find his grave and... the cemetery no longer exists.
I discovered, via the Internet, the following:
"Monument Cemetery, the second rural cemetery in Philadelphia, was founded in 1837 on North Broad Street, across from Temple University. In the 1950s, it fell victim to the school's need for parking lots. Thousands of those interred there were transferred to a mass grave in the suburbs. Their monuments were dumped into the Delaware River, where they are still visible today.
Other vanished cemeteries include Glenwood at Ridge Avenue and 27th Street, which gave way to the Philadelphia Housing Authority's first housing project in the 1930s; The original Odd Fellows at Diamond and 24th Streets, displaced for the Raymond Rosen towers (ed. note: a failed urban public housing effort); and Franklin Cemetery in Kensington, whose 8,000 bodies disappeared in the 1940s as part of a political swindle gone bad."
Further investigation lead me to Lawnview Cemetery, in Rockledge, PA, whose website states, "There are two Philadelphia Cemeteries which were closed and relocated to Lawnview Cemetery. In 1951, the original Odd Fellows' Cemetery was closed and the 65,000 bodies interred there were re-interred at Lawnview. When Monument Cemetery was closed in 1955, all 26,000 bodies were also re-interred at Lawnview."
I found many of my Philadelphia relatives had been buried in Glenwood, Franklin, and Monument cemeteries as well as the original Odd Fellows cemetery. So, many of them were dug up in the 1950's and reburied in Lawnview without their gravestones.

The office told me my 4-great grandparents, Joseph and Sarah, were re-buried in the Norris Lawn area, Section 14, Grave number 62 and drew an "x" on a map on the rough location.

Somewhere - in the shadow of an ancient oak tree, lie the unmarked remains of my great-great-great-great grandparents, who I suppose, came to this country with high hopes, much excitement, and a dream for a brighter future... and while unmarked, are not forgotten -

Somehow, I think my forefather might of liked knowing there was a small lane lined with big ol' oak trees nearby - and this one, in particular, which shades his grave... I gave it a big hug.
As I was leaving the cemetery, something caught my eye... I'll write about that later...

17 comments:
It's a shame how things can happen sometimes...when society takes over and leaves us with bits and pieces of our ancestry. Relocating the graves is one thing, but relocating them without markers of any kind is beyond me. When I read the part about the mass grave and the monuments dumped in the Delaware River, it made me heart sick. What kind of society does that?
I'm glad you found where Joseph and Sarah were finally laid to rest. I think they would like the idea of being near a big oak tree that their 4-greats grandson can hug.
Will be waiting for the story about what caught your eye as you were leaving that day. *hugs*
I'm betting that Joseph and Sarah are looking down with pride and love that such a fine man has taken the time to think of them remember them in such a special way. They say looking back can sometimes help one find their future path. ((hugs))
You've been having some deep thoughts my friend. I wish you could have come to my home for Thanksgiving. That would have been super fun!
I love how you are motivated to research your family history. I cannot believe there was a re-burial without markers. I can't even imagine how one can DO that! Wrong!
So...I'm glad you have connected with their memory this way. People you never met but are a part of a special legacy together.
I totally agree with AliceKay's comment about moving the graves and dumping the headstones. Sounds so disrespectful to me. I am glad that you did find where Joseph and Sarah rested; it did look so very serene there and restful.
curious too about what caught your eye, was it perhaps orange related?
betty
I am also shocked that we have ever mass-moved cemeteries, thrown away the markers, and not even bothered to mark the new grave site. Even a mass grave could have had a plaque with the names and dates on when you've moved an entire marked cemetery! Well, we shouldn't ever be shocked by what humans do, I guess.
Myself, I take solace in the fact that, to me, these bodies are just like clothing we remove when we leave. I believe they are all fine--regardless of what happens to their bodies. Many cultures now and over the centuries don't have burial sites for their loved ones. They left them to the elements or set them on fire. But the ancestors live on when people like you think, research, and wonder about them. They probably know you have looked for them and hugged the nearby trees.
I think we all start our lives as energetic youths with high hopes, much excitement, and a dream for a bright future. Life is a challenging trip thru time, that's for sure. I always think a lot about my own path at the end of the year. Been an adventure--good and bad. :):)
I'm wondering what you noticed, too. I also thought of cones--hehe! Wishing you the very best, my friend. *hugs*
I can't believe that they just tossed them in the river like that. that's just awful.
I was alone on thanksgiving too.and was in a bummed out mood for a couple of days..but I got over it..a belated thanksgiving wish to you..
You have quite the knack for "digging" up historical facts. But I find it hard to believe that someone took the time and effort to relocate that many bodies. Hmmmm.
I have felt less than chipper, less than rowdy, less than inspired, plain ole less than lately, so I can definitely relate to you feeling less than chipper. I hope you find something to be chipper about real soon. I will settle for something to rile me up. I've been feeling entirely too placid lately.
I wish I had an interest in "anything" that could rival your interest in your family tree. I love reading about your ancestral discoveries.
Sometimes when we go searching we don't at all like what we find. The moved graves is very sad.
Wish I had been there with you on this journey and could have shared a tree hug with you.
So, up next, an "eye catching" post!
Relocating the graves is bad enough, but relocating the graves with no markers... That's just wrong. I'm glad you discovered the rough location of your ancestors at least.
People move for various reasons. Perhaps - like many people from that time - your ancestors thought a life in America would be better for them? As I understand it, a lot of people moved to America from Britain and Ireland thinking they were going to a better life. And many people also moved from America to Britain and Ireland for the same sort of reason. I don't think it matters how old you are when you move, if you feel it's the right thing for you to do... 26, 38, in your 50s, or even older. If you feel moving is the right thing for you, then you should do it.
As for Children's feelings about a move... Most children are - I think - excited about the new adventure. Especially if the parents manage to paint a picture of a new and wonderful life for them. So, I would think that young Charles would have been excited about his new life in a new country.
That is heartbreaking. I didn't know graves were ever moved.
Why do some people just up and move? Maybe it was for adventure. Maybe it's for other reasons we will never know of.
Thinking of you, like always!
You know, at least they were re-located. I read somewhere very recently that a cemetery was covered up for a parking lot. The graves are still down there.
As for the gravestones in the Delaware river, that sure is going to confuse future archaeologists down the line isn't it?
It must be nice to be able to connect to some of your ancestors.
Now, c'mon, what else caught your eye there? You've got my curosity!
Oh MY Gosh, when I read your post, I was loving reading the history and then when I got to what happened to those gravesites and some being dumped in the water I was just horrified, that is so sad, Im sorry you were alone on Thanksgiving Iggy, HUGS
OF course I'm heading backwards... which I always do to catch up.
loved the photo of the oak.
That is so wrong that cemeteries get moved and people lose their markers.
I often think of all the unmarked graves over the years (along the wagon tracks) ...
makes me think of how vapor just gets lost in the morning sun.
So you are looking back instead of forward..I think when you are doing research that naturally happens. I know I get a tad blue when I find something that doesn't sit well with me..or if I run into a brick wall..like cemeteries that have been moved and the markers dumped in the river..who does that kind of thing? *&^% idiots.
Keep searching..never give up..you never know what you will find..you found the tree..in the spring that area may look different:)
The disinterment is a desecration. The oak is a consolation.
have you ever thought that your ancesters might of bee kicked out of jolly ole England :)
and hey, your never to old to look forward, and your still young enough to have kids..
me, well, Im to old for anything lol
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